Used to report imperatives, requests, or instructions.
S + told / asked + Object + TO + V1
S + told / asked + Object + NOT TO + V1
She asked me to open the door
Choose verb matching the tone: tell (command), ask (request), warn (danger).
warned us not to touch • reminded me to call
ordered them not to move
Did he warn you not to go?
| Example / Question | Positive / Short Answer | Negative / Short Answer |
|---|---|---|
| Command: "Be quiet!" | He told us TO BE quiet. | Not: He told us that be quiet |
| Negative: "Don't run!" | She told them NOT TO run. | Not: She told them to not run |
| Request: "Please call me." | He asked me TO CALL him. | Drop the word "please" |
| Rule | Base / Standard Form | Applied Form |
|---|---|---|
| Object + To-Infinitive Structure Rule | Reported commands MUST use the structure: Subject + Reporting Verb + OBJECT + (NOT) TO + V1. | told ME to go (NOT "told to go") |
| Position of "Not" Rule | Place "NOT" directly BEFORE "to": "not to touch" (NOT "to not touch"). | not to touch (CORRECT) vs to not touch (WRONG) |
| Omit "Please" in Reported Speech | Always drop the word "please" when reporting requests! The verb "ask" already carries politeness. | asked me to help (NOT "asked me to please help") |
Relay orders from teachers, bosses, or parents.
Report when someone asks you to do something.
Report reminders politely.
"Tell" is used for direct commands/orders ("Clean your room!"). "Ask" is used for polite requests ("Could you clean your room?").
Tell, ask, order, warn, advise, remind, invite, encourage, forbid, instruct.
Use "told/warned + Object + NOT TO do that" (e.g., "She warned me not to do that").