Provides essential information to identify the noun. Cannot be removed.
The man who lives next door is nice • The car that I bought is fast
no commas used!
Do you know the boy who won the race?
Provides extra background information. Can be omitted without losing core meaning.
My father, who is 60, still works • London, which is big, is expensive
NEVER use "that" in non-defining clauses!
Have you visited Paris, which is in France?
| Example / Question | Positive / Short Answer | Negative / Short Answer |
|---|---|---|
| Defining: Essential info | The house that I built is big. | No commas & Can use "that" |
| Non-Defining: Extra info | My house, which I built in 2010, is big. | COMMAS required & CANNOT use "that" |
| Pronoun Omission | The movie (that) I watched was good. | Omit "that" because "I" is subject |
| Rule | Base / Standard Form | Applied Form |
|---|---|---|
| No "That" After Commas Rule | NEVER use "that" in a non-defining relative clause (after a comma)! Use who or which instead. | My brother, who lives in Hanoi (CORRECT) vs My brother, that lives in Hanoi (WRONG) |
| Comma Rules for Extra Information | Use commas before and after non-defining clauses because they add non-essential extra detail. | Paris, which is beautiful, is expensive. |
| Object Pronoun Omission Rule | You can omit who/which/that ONLY in defining clauses when followed by Subject + Verb. | The car (which) I bought |
Distinguish one item out of many possibilities in defining clauses.
Enrich your writing with details separated by commas.
Build complex, fluent sentences.
Remove the clause! If the sentence still makes clear sense and identifies the noun, it was NON-DEFINING (use commas). If the sentence becomes vague/meaningless, it was DEFINING (no commas).
In non-defining clauses, "which" can refer back to an entire previous clause: "He passed the test, WHICH surprised everyone" (which = the fact that he passed).
Yes! "The boy whose dog ran away" (defining) and "John, whose dog ran away, is sad" (non-defining).





